Calling All Single Ladies!

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Weddings elicit happiness and excitement for the bride and groom on their big day, but for single bridesmaids who are asked to take part in the bridal party, it may be a little daunting. Finding that perfect date to bring to the wedding may also bring high levels of anxiety, but with so many pre-wedding celebrations, there’s no time to sit around and mope. Calling all single ladies! Before you ask just any old eligible male friend to be your date, consider these tips (courtesy of Match.com) that will help you work your magic before your friend’s big day.

Make the most out of pre-wedding celebrations. From the bachelorette party to rehearsal dinners, you will be exposed to plenty of eligible men. Compared to your responsibilities on the big day, you will have less on your plate during these pre-wedding festivities and more time to scope out your match. According to Anja Winikka, an editor at TheKnot.com, the rehearsal is a great way for you to get a sneak peak of the key wedding guests. “Maybe you can meet a guy there, and that turns into saving one of the slow dances for each other at the wedding reception,” says Winikka.

Think positively and bask in that extra attention. Although the wedding day isn’t about you, remember that you will look equally as amazing and all eyes will be on you when it’s your turn to walk the aisle. You spent so much time and effort with the dress, shoes, hair, nails (and the list goes on!), so if you got it, flaunt it. Staying in a positive mindset will only benefit you as you mingle and meet new people.

Break out of your shell and showcase the best version of yourself. Tend to be a wall-flower? Do something about it! You’re in charge of your actions and mindset, so it’s all about walking the walk and talking the talk. Keep it smooth—be bold, be daring and most importantly, be happy!

Chat someone up. At the reception, you have ample opportunity to chat with an array of people. Use this time to your advantage and mingle as much as you can. It may be awkward talking to someone you don’t really know, but you never know—some of the most intriguing convos await you!

Remember your role. It is exciting to meet new people, but always remember your primary role on your friend’s big day. Keep your dating aspirations in perspective and remember that you are first and foremost her bridesmaid. Whether a brawl erupts or there’s a dress malfunction, don’t ditch the bride for your opportunity to chat up a bachelor. Friends come first!

While so much hard work and dedication is demanded from you as a bridesmaid, don’t forget about your needs and happiness. Single? Who cares? Weddings offer ample opportunities to meet new people and broaden your social circles. No need to stress about finding the perfect date—he might be easier to find than you think!

xo, Lisl