Bridesmaid Etiquette by The Knot

Duties.  Expenses.  Etiquette.  What do you do when there's dissent amongst the bridesmaids or when "Bridezilla" loses her cool?  The Knot answers the basic bridesmaid questions and provides insight for what to do in a given situation.

Every wedding is different, and your bride should tell you what she expects of you and the other members of the wedding party.  If one of the bridesmaids is slacking on her duties, confidentially bring it up to the bride and let her handle the situation.  Agreeing to be a bridesmaid does not mean you can't provide input, but it does mean that you acknowledge that this is the bride's big day.  Your job is to have fun making her special day unforgettable.

xo, Alaina